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Lily's Log is MOVING!

I have decided the format of ParelliConnect is more comfortable for me to document my adventures with Lily and Kiowa. While I will continue to check in here occasionally, I enjoy being able to track specific tasks and the number of hours that I have spent working on a task. I hope those of you that I have met on here will find and "follow" me on Parelli Connect! Let me know if you do, I would love to continue following your journey(s) on that site as well!

You can search for us by my name: Kathy Peterson

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Adaptability ~ Lily's Log #42

When I went out to play with the horses today, I knew something was up. I haven’t played with Lily in a week or so due to the weather. My usually very friendly mares wanted nothing to do with me as I walked out with my carrot stick, halter and 22. Hmmmm. Rather than what has become my typical M.O. of "walk up and catch her anyway….I have thing to do!" I turned and sat on the big rock that (luckily) was dry and set my tools down. Well, not even 2 seconds later, all 3 of the horses walked right over and started jockeying for the best spot next to me!

Group Therapy~Lily's Log #41

I finally made it out to see the horses last night, now that the weather has let up. Unfortunately, the non-stop snow and/or rain has left the corral a sloppy, soggy, icy, mud bog.

Plastic and progress~Lily's Log #40

 Lily and I worked on extreme friendly game today, and some circling. She LOVES the plastic bag/flag on the carrot stick! No problems there! She did have trouble keeping her feet still for the Extreme friendly witht the carrot stick and string, but ended up standing confidently. We will definitely be revisiting that on a regular basis until she is as confident as she is with the plastic bag.

entertain me! ~ Lily's Log #39

Lily has been a lot of fun the last few sessions. Tonight, I played the catching game with both Kiowa and Lily and it was very interesting, trying to balance their needs as individuals while playing with them simultaneously. I was able to get both of them to catch me together, which was really rewarding! I haltered Lily and tied the end of the 12ft lead around Kiowa's neck. Holding the middle, I was able to begin the idea of playing with them together online....a tricky task with the way they bicker!

I wish you'd never grow up~ Lily's Log #38

Well, I have come to realize that I am completely spioled by the intelligence and willingness of my beautiful horses. They make me look GOOD!

Take the Time it Takes ~ Lily's Log #37

So, I didn't want you to think I had gone and forgotten all about Miss Lily while preparing for me wedding (see my previous post for details and PICTURES!). She has been growing and improving everyday. She amazes me with how smart she is and how much try she has.

The Wedding of my DREAMS! (with pictures!)

I am so excited to be through all the planning and stress, but it was all worth it! I had the most magical wedding I could ever imagine, thanks to my perfect partners, Earl (my husband) and Kiowa (my equine soul mate). With a LOT of help from my incredible friends and family! For those who may not know, my husband Earl is deathly allergic to horses, but he refused to have a wedding that Kiowa could not have been a part of....proof I married the perfect man!

A quick update from my neck of the woods!

It seems like ages since the last time I posted! With the wedding coming up so fast and some daunting drama at work, I have be too busy to even think about anything but making time through all the commotion to spend with my girls. Rest assured, they have been getting played with regularly. Actually, I think I have been more consistent because I feel like I have to fight for every minute I get to spend with them! Thank the lord for a supportive husband!

Crabby-ness & Confidence ~ Lily's Log # 36

So today didn't go nearly as well as I would have liked, but there were a few bright spots.

Time Flies... ~ Lily's Log #35

....when you're having fun! I have been so busy trying to get in as much time as possible with my girls before I go back to the reality of working 40 hours a week, I haven't had time to write!

New Beginnings and Bright Futures~Lily's Log #34

Well, after having the pleasure of attending a 2 day workshop with 3* PP's  Maurice Thibault and Susan Nelson at the end of June, I feel re-energized and a new sense of purpose in my desire to succeed with my girls. Some of the simplest techniques I learned have made the biggest breakthroughs for both horses, but especially Kiowa! She had gotten very dull and lazy in her responses to my requests, but with these new strategies, she has made a huge improvement!

A test of Lightness ~ Lily's Log #33

I finally got to play with Lily today for the first time since breaking my arm. She was amazing! She had so much energy and really wanted to cut loose and play at the end of the 22ft line so I allowed it with minimal suggestions. At one point she jumped and threw her head in a particularly animated display while I was tranferring the rope from behind my back to my left hand using my right, so I had to let go to protct my injured arm. She took off bucking merrily and happily came back to play more. It was a real test of how light I could be when asking for sideways, yo-yo, etc.

I'm back! ~Lily's Log #32

It has been well over a month since my last blog. Kiowa and I have a stonger bond than ever, encouraged by LOTS of undemanding time after she got kicked. She is on (essentially) stall rest for another week, then slowly easing back into a normal routine.

Just the two of us~Lily's Log #31

I decided to take Lily out for a long walk by herself after spending all day Saturday with Kiowa at the HFTS program and leaving Lily home alone.

My first saddle!~Lily's Log #30

Lily wore a big, heavy western saddle for the first time on Sunday! She did amazing. She never once offered to buck, rear or do anything silly! Proof that Parelli really does set horses up for success! Lily took the cinch great, and then I flapped the stirrups on her sides to see how she felt about it. She never got scared, but she did initially think she was supposed to go sideways! Ijust kept doing it until she stopped and relaxed so she knew it was no big deal. I took video of her while she was doing the circling game and posted it here:

A day to celebrate! ~ Lily's Log #28

Well, I got the biopsy results back today..... Kiowa is cancer-free! WOO HOO!! The vet said she is perfectly fine, just a mild case of non-specific vaginitis (inflammation of the vaginal tissue with no obvious cause)  which can be treated with over-the-counter medications. What a relief!

sideways and the dreaded canter ~Lily's Log #27

An update from my last blog....no news yet on Kiowa's biopsy. Hopefully we will have some answers Monday.

Too much Too soon?~Lily's Log #27

Playing with my girls yesterday was rewarding and trying at the same time. Kiowa proved once again why she is so amazing, offering anything I asked of her with a positive look...almost smiling! I should have been more excited, but I couldn't help being distracted. Kiowa had to have some small red lesions on her vulva removed by our vet and submitted to a lab in California to be tested as they may be cancerous. The biopsy samples were taken Monday, but I won't ge the results until Thursday or Friday. The waiting is killing me.

unveiling of a super horse~Lily's Log #26

Kiowa is my best friend, my equine soul mate...the one thing I love as much as my husband. In fact, he needed her approval before I would date him seriously!

Lily, on the other hand, is my super horse.

Soapboxing and Insecurity~Lily's Log #25

Today was very interesting. I am wondering why I have been immersed in this soapbox topic so fully....It feels like I'm supposed to be learning a lesson or something, or maybe I watch too many movies...lol

I need a soapbox for a second....

I think for me, personally, being committed to the change in yourself is far more important than expecting change in the horses. I have met a few former Parelli students...the majority of whom were very rude and condesending. I realise now that it is because they realised they needed to change themselves and were unwilling to take responsibiliy for their end of the relationship. It's easy to wave an orange stick, and use the techniques to teach a few tricks to impress those around you.

3 Days of HEAVEN! ~ Lily's Log #24

I apologize to those of you who follow this, but i have spent each of the last 3 days after work playing with my girls and the accomplishments are amazing! My mustangs never cease to amaze me with how smart and talented they are.

Here is a "brief" (HA! like anything I write is ever brief!!) highlight reel of the days' achievements...

How to Train Your Dragon....

was an amazing movie! I saw a lot of my horse's attitudes in "Toothless", the main dragon in the story. If you get a chance, I would highly reccomend everyone sees this movie! It is directed at the younger crowd, but it has something for everyone.

Most ...Amazing ....Day....WOW! ~Lily's Log #23

I had the BEST day I could have imagined with my horses today! It was windy and cold, but we braved the weather and it was so worth it.  I am so proud of them and so excited to see what else we can accomplish!