Africa: Our Journey #51 Breakthrough!

A breakthrough, indeed!  I've been trying to approach our sessions together without anger and impatience.  I know neither of those feelings are justified or good for our relationship, but I've had a hard time separating those feelings when I need to correct Africa.  When thinking about Phase 4, I associate it with punishment which happens when someone is angry.

Here's another benefit from my clinic with Jesse Peters.  It has taken time to assimulate, but today I found that much of my anger and frustration has disappeared while playing with Africa.  I have a softer, calmer approach. 

While playing at liberty today, Africa seemed to have forgotten the weave pattern.  I tried giving him cues while still off-line and he was getting more confused.  So we went back on-line to practice and then off-line to see if he remembered the pattern.  He did!

As Africa grazed before going back to his pasture, I realized what had happened and how I felt during our time together.  My thoughts included, "He's trying so hard."  He's asking questions and trying to do what I want him to do."  "Let's try this."  I felt at ease, patient, and calm.  There was a smile on my face. 

I know this session has built rapport and respect on both sides of the partnership.